forthright..it is good??

is it  possible to be 100% honest in relationship?????


      "Honesty is the best policy" .Honest can be describe as telling the truth and tell straightforward without hidden.Sometimes it can be expressed by sincerity,honorable and fairness too.That is why people say that honesty is the best policy and foundation in relationship.Relationship is very general and common, most of us consider it like relation with partner even relation with family, friends and surroundings.Although it is the best policy, it does not meaning that we must being 100% honest in relationship....Are you agree??

      In relationship, it is not always to adhere to the maximum " honesty is the best policy ".In fact,there are some certain scenarios where it behooves us to lie our partner especially in couple relation.We cannot being too honest with them,one of the reason is they are not confirm will be our part of life in the future even we have been couple for long time.For example my cousin experience,she had been couple for almost eight years with a guy who was her senior at previous school.Even,both family also have know and bless their relation,until once they want to get engaged,the man say that he was not ready to be a husband but actually he was couple with other woman (.. ).My  cousin was very frustrated but finally she meet other guy who has been her husband until now.On the other hand,they might be not serious in relation especially man, perhaps.Some of them think that relation is just for fun.So,we cannot put 100% honest in couple relationship.

       Apart from that,we look relationship in family,it is include our relation with parents and our siblings..For me in these case,we can being 100% honest .This is because I think when we being forthright, we can get closer and dear to our family.It is okay when we share all our problems or story or memories with them. Moreover,when we tell the truth despite consequences to our parents,we can get many benefit as they will give more advice and opinion from their experiences also they can correct our behavior if there something wrong.Then,if we always share our story to our siblings,it will make the relation very closer and fun.For example my siblings style,we always comment and criticize ourselves attitude without done secretly and not feel offend each other about.Thus,we cultivate our love each other with my parents and my siblings  through this way and think open-minded.

        Besides that,in my opinion we cannot being 100% honest with our peers and friends.This is because
not all our friends are thinking what we thought about.For example, when we want to share our secret,it better we think carefully to tell on someone only when necessary.Other is not all our friends can accept when we express it sincerely.It does not mean that we have to pretend in front of them but it is to care about the friendship in a good way.


        In a nutshell,I can conclude that we can being 100% honest in what we feel comfortable to.It depends to individual view.As for me,I think we can just being totally honest to our family,not in friend and couple relation.Do something better in any relationship without hurt others feeling and the most important is being honest as it can express our real love and sincerely.



* tchr sha,sorry b'coz i'm late post this essay..plez forgive me:"}